I'm joining in on Lisa-Jo baker's 'Five Minute Friday'.
The rules are pretty simple. One word. Five minutes of writing. No editing.
When I saw this word... pictures is all I could see.
My husband.
Our children.
Gramps.
Gram.
Wine.
Nina.
My siblings.
Our veterans.
The guy who created sliced bread... actually I don't know who that was, it might have been a woman.
My family.
My friends.
Our dogs.
Coffee.
So many hold a spot of being a hero, animals, things, from the very big to the very small. There are so many instances where one person puts on the super hero cape in my mind. They might not even notice that they are putting on the cape but to me they have. That imaginary cape. The one that sparkles even when it's a cloudy day.
There are men and women out there that wear a cape day in and day out. Battling one thing or another. We don't always see it. Sometimes, just sometimes if you tilt you head just right you might see that person wearing their cape with that accomplished worn out smile. You know, the one that the single Momma wears after she has worked a full day, done laundry, made dinner, read a story, gotten everyone to bed and she has one hour of quiet time before she has to get to bed before she starts it all over at the crack of dawn. Or the one that the construction worker wears, after he has worked four, tens at his second site, just so he can send his sister some money to pay on her medical bills. Or that little boy, who just came in from recess not shedding a tear from being picked on the whole time. Or that older man who sits down on his front porch after getting off the phone with the hospital, his wife has lost her battle to cancer, trying to remind himself that she isn't in pain anymore. Or that young girl that is quietly battling with anorexia, she ate breakfast and lunch today.
We all wear our capes.
Tilt your head a little today and remember we all have our own battles.
Let your cape shine, you deserve it because you are a hero in someone's eyes.
Friday, January 31, 2014
100 Happy Days {27}
Can you be happy for 100 days? Challenge accepted.
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Twenty Seven- Registered for WIN KC Tri 2014!!!
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Twenty Seven- Registered for WIN KC Tri 2014!!!
100 Happy Days {26}
Can you be happy for 100 days? Challenge accepted.
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Twenty Six-Cuddling
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Twenty Six-Cuddling
Thursday, January 30, 2014
100 Happy Days {25}
Can you be happy for 100 days? Challenge accepted.
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Twenty-Five -Starbucks date with my little dude.
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Twenty-Five -Starbucks date with my little dude.
Shenanigans {A Momma's purse}
This is for that moment when you just need to put your hand in your
purse and pull out... chap-stick, your keys and instead find...
You know you carry a Momma's purse when....
- You dump your purse out and find the majority of your 25lbs. purse to be carrying small cars.
- You want to find your car keys and instead find toy keys... and still try using them.
- You want to grab your debit card and instead pull out a picture that was drawn in church.
- You want to go to grab chapstick and instead pull out Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles sai.
- You dump your purse out and find the bottom completley littered with cracker morsels or M&M scraps or some sticky substance that you really don't want to know what it is or all three of the above.
- You dive in to grab a tissue and pull out a Toys R Us clipping with toys circled.
- You go to get a wet wipe and instead find a used tissue... cause there wasn't a garbage can and the kiddos didn't want to carry a used tissue around.
- You go to answer your cell phone and instead have a conversation on the Mickey Mouse Clubhouse phone.
- You go to grab hand sanitizer and instead grab a melted candy bar.
- You go to grab your wallet and find it has been replaced with a pencil box.
- Someone asks for a pen and the only writing utensil that you have is a purple crayon.
I'm sure I'll be adding more to the list soon.
You know you carry a Momma's purse when....
- You dump your purse out and find the majority of your 25lbs. purse to be carrying small cars.
- You want to find your car keys and instead find toy keys... and still try using them.
- You want to grab your debit card and instead pull out a picture that was drawn in church.
- You want to go to grab chapstick and instead pull out Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles sai.
- You dump your purse out and find the bottom completley littered with cracker morsels or M&M scraps or some sticky substance that you really don't want to know what it is or all three of the above.
- You dive in to grab a tissue and pull out a Toys R Us clipping with toys circled.
- You go to get a wet wipe and instead find a used tissue... cause there wasn't a garbage can and the kiddos didn't want to carry a used tissue around.
- You go to answer your cell phone and instead have a conversation on the Mickey Mouse Clubhouse phone.
- You go to grab hand sanitizer and instead grab a melted candy bar.
- You go to grab your wallet and find it has been replaced with a pencil box.
- Someone asks for a pen and the only writing utensil that you have is a purple crayon.
I'm sure I'll be adding more to the list soon.
Wednesday, January 29, 2014
{52 Lists} Week Four
I'm tagging along on with Moorea Seal
as she gives a prompt to each week this year on making a list. Yeah, a
list. Some of them are deep, some light hearted, some silly. Check out the lists and join in!
Week four// List your current & future goals & dreams
{This might have been my favorite week so far. It was so VERY cool to look back at last year's list vs this year.}
Week four// List your current & future goals & dreams
{This might have been my favorite week so far. It was so VERY cool to look back at last year's list vs this year.}
100 Happy Days {24}
Can you be happy for 100 days? Challenge accepted.
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Twenty-Four - Getting a special note from Louis at work.
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Twenty-Four - Getting a special note from Louis at work.
100 Happy Days {23}
Can you be happy for 100 days? Challenge accepted.
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Twenty-Three -Rian {4 years old} practicing his letters.
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Twenty-Three -Rian {4 years old} practicing his letters.
Monday, January 27, 2014
{this moment}
{this moment} - A single photo - no words - capturing a moment from the
week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to
pause, savor and remember.
100 Happy Days {22}
Can you be happy for 100 days? Challenge accepted.
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Twenty-Two - Cooking with my kiddos
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Twenty-Two - Cooking with my kiddos
100 Happy Days {21}
Can you be happy for 100 days? Challenge accepted.
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Twenty-One-Family night
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Twenty-One-Family night
Saturday, January 25, 2014
100 Happy Days {20}
Can you be happy for 100 days? Challenge accepted.
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Twenty- Louis' thoughtful heart for his Dad's morning cup of coffee.
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Twenty- Louis' thoughtful heart for his Dad's morning cup of coffee.
Friday, January 24, 2014
Visit
I'm joining in on Lisa-Jo baker's 'Five Minute Friday'.
The rules are pretty simple. One word. Five minutes of writing. No editing.
Visit
It started out a dreaded thing. This trip that meant so much to my husband. The boys so excited for it. I... I wasn't. There had been a bad past and to go visit... that would mean that I was over what had happened... right? I was "over" what had happened though, wasn't I? I mean I said I was, but yet there was this pain in my heart. No, it wasn't easy to explain. We are supposed to forgive and forget and I had done that right?
This visit. There was so much riding on this visit.
I don't think anyone really knew how much... courage, no... strength, no... just how much it took to make that visit. Being in the middle, one side saying it was fine and the other being hurt.
In truth after all was said and done it was good. No, there wasn't fireworks and a scheduled next visit. No, there wasn't tears of an awful visit. It was a start. It was a beginning. It was a step.
The rules are pretty simple. One word. Five minutes of writing. No editing.
Visit
It started out a dreaded thing. This trip that meant so much to my husband. The boys so excited for it. I... I wasn't. There had been a bad past and to go visit... that would mean that I was over what had happened... right? I was "over" what had happened though, wasn't I? I mean I said I was, but yet there was this pain in my heart. No, it wasn't easy to explain. We are supposed to forgive and forget and I had done that right?
This visit. There was so much riding on this visit.
I don't think anyone really knew how much... courage, no... strength, no... just how much it took to make that visit. Being in the middle, one side saying it was fine and the other being hurt.
In truth after all was said and done it was good. No, there wasn't fireworks and a scheduled next visit. No, there wasn't tears of an awful visit. It was a start. It was a beginning. It was a step.
100 Happy Days {19}
Can you be happy for 100 days? Challenge accepted.
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Nineteen- Listening to my son read. Be still my heart.
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Nineteen- Listening to my son read. Be still my heart.
Thursday, January 23, 2014
100 Happy Days {18}
Can you be happy for 100 days? Challenge accepted.
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Eighteen- Date night with my hubby.
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Eighteen- Date night with my hubby.
Wednesday, January 22, 2014
100 Happy Days {17}
Can you be happy for 100 days? Challenge accepted.
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Seventeen- Knitting with my son.
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Seventeen- Knitting with my son.
{52 Lists} Week Three
I'm tagging along on with Moorea Seal
as she gives a prompt to each week this year on making a list. Yeah, a
list. Some of them are deep, some light hearted, some silly. Check out the lists and join in!
I'll be honest this was a really tricky prompt this week for me. Maybe I'll add on later...
Monday, January 20, 2014
100 Happy Days {16}
Can you be happy for 100 days? Challenge accepted.
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Sixteen- It's blurry but I think you get the idea. Laughter is what made me happy today ;)
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Sixteen- It's blurry but I think you get the idea. Laughter is what made me happy today ;)
{this moment}
{this moment} - A single photo - no words - capturing a moment from the
week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to
pause, savor and remember.
100 Happy Days {15}
Can you be happy for 100 days? Challenge accepted.
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Fifteen- Making a chalk town in beautiful weather.
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Fifteen- Making a chalk town in beautiful weather.
100 Happy Days {14}
Can you be happy for 100 days? Challenge accepted.
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Fourteen- Board games with the family
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Fourteen- Board games with the family
100 Happy Days {13}
Can you be happy for 100 days? Challenge accepted.
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Thirteen-When your eight year old son does laundry without being told to... happy dance!
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Thirteen-When your eight year old son does laundry without being told to... happy dance!
Friday, January 17, 2014
Encouragement
I'm joining in on Lisa-Jo baker's 'Five Minute Friday'.
The rules are pretty simple. One word. Five minutes of writing. No editing.
Encouragement
It's easy for a Momma to cheer on her child. In fact I'm pretty sure it was a Mom was who invented cheer-leading. To see your child learn something and practice it and then accomplish it. It makes you want to stand up and do cartwheels. That is a no brainer.
For a Mom to accept encouragement though... now that... that's hard. That's a horse of a different color isn't it?! But why? Why can we dish it out so easily and happily but then when we are on the receiving end... we shut down? We make these excuses as to why we shouldn't receive encouragement. This is true for not just Mommas, this is true for women and while we are at it probably a lot of Dads and men.
Where does it start? How does it start?
We... or rather I become apologetic.
"Oh, no. I could never." or "Oh that's so sweet of you but no."
Why?
Why no? Why couldn't I?
We set ourselves up, don't we.
The thing is I believe it's a learned trait. For years we listen to other women and Mommas down play that encouragement. We listen to men and Dads refuse the accomplishment. Where as our children beam. The joy that you see spread through a child. They haven't learned to refuse it yet.
Be unapologetically encouraged. Let the encouragement build you not tear you down.
The rules are pretty simple. One word. Five minutes of writing. No editing.
Encouragement
It's easy for a Momma to cheer on her child. In fact I'm pretty sure it was a Mom was who invented cheer-leading. To see your child learn something and practice it and then accomplish it. It makes you want to stand up and do cartwheels. That is a no brainer.
For a Mom to accept encouragement though... now that... that's hard. That's a horse of a different color isn't it?! But why? Why can we dish it out so easily and happily but then when we are on the receiving end... we shut down? We make these excuses as to why we shouldn't receive encouragement. This is true for not just Mommas, this is true for women and while we are at it probably a lot of Dads and men.
Where does it start? How does it start?
We... or rather I become apologetic.
"Oh, no. I could never." or "Oh that's so sweet of you but no."
Why?
Why no? Why couldn't I?
We set ourselves up, don't we.
The thing is I believe it's a learned trait. For years we listen to other women and Mommas down play that encouragement. We listen to men and Dads refuse the accomplishment. Where as our children beam. The joy that you see spread through a child. They haven't learned to refuse it yet.
Be unapologetically encouraged. Let the encouragement build you not tear you down.
Thursday, January 16, 2014
100 Happy Days {12}
Can you be happy for 100 days? Challenge accepted.
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Twelve- my boys
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Twelve- my boys
Wednesday, January 15, 2014
Shenanigans {Dogs}
You may or may not know this but our family are happy pet owners to Cooperton James and Lilly Belle.
Cooper aka our famous dog (No he isn't really famous. For some reason the boys insist that he is.)
Lilly aka Baby Girl (The only other girl in our house besides me.)
We love our puppies, they are most definitely part of our family. This week Ms Lilly went in to the veterinarian to be spayed. This seems like a simple thing but this is where the joy of parenting comes.
1. The explaining of the surgery.
Rian was fine with the 'she is just going in to have a surgery'.
Louis was fine with the 'she is getting fixed so she doesn't have babies'.
Sam however, needed more information.
Why doesn't she need babies? What do they do in the surgery? Why? Why? Why?
As a general rule we try to make information for the boys as age appropriate as possible. Samual has a heart for animals. When he told us that he is going to live on a farm and be a veterinarian... it seems to be a pretty natural decision for him (This reminds me to tell you about "The Knitting Club"). With that in mind we tried our best to explain what was happening. NOT and easy challenge. Where are all the books for this?!
2. The emotional days.
Rian... not biggy.
Louis, tears, sadness.
Sam, tears, sadness, worried.
Dad... meh.
Mom... tears, sadness, worried. HOW THE HECK AM I THIS EMOTIONAL ABOUT THIS?!
Here's the thing it's a normal procedure. The problem started when I was comforting the boys. Any Momma's heart breaks when her child's heart is broken. It was a very emotional morning.
THEN
Lilly and I get to the vet's office and they talk me through what is about to happen. I'm fine.
THEN
They tell me that if I need to call and check up on her that I can. PAUSE. Now I'm thinking I'm a horrible puppy Momma 'cause I was not planning on calling to see how she was doing. CONTINUE. They tell me that they will call us after the surgery is done. PAUSE. This is serious.
THEN
They tell me the different pain management options. OUCH.
THEN
Lilly is shaking so bad that they carry her to the back. I stand by the door and look back and the vet assistant waves Lilly's paw.
QUE THE TEARS.
Of course I call my husband. Text back and forth with my BFF.
I feel a little too dramatic.
Then the boys come home and realize that no, Lilly really isn't at home.
QUE more tears.
So this morning I go to pick up Lilly and she was so happy that she peed on me.
Yeah. It's been a long few days. However. Lilly is home and resting.
These are the shenanigans that have been happening.
Cooper aka our famous dog (No he isn't really famous. For some reason the boys insist that he is.)
Lilly aka Baby Girl (The only other girl in our house besides me.)
We love our puppies, they are most definitely part of our family. This week Ms Lilly went in to the veterinarian to be spayed. This seems like a simple thing but this is where the joy of parenting comes.
1. The explaining of the surgery.
Rian was fine with the 'she is just going in to have a surgery'.
Louis was fine with the 'she is getting fixed so she doesn't have babies'.
Sam however, needed more information.
Why doesn't she need babies? What do they do in the surgery? Why? Why? Why?
As a general rule we try to make information for the boys as age appropriate as possible. Samual has a heart for animals. When he told us that he is going to live on a farm and be a veterinarian... it seems to be a pretty natural decision for him (This reminds me to tell you about "The Knitting Club"). With that in mind we tried our best to explain what was happening. NOT and easy challenge. Where are all the books for this?!
2. The emotional days.
Rian... not biggy.
Louis, tears, sadness.
Sam, tears, sadness, worried.
Dad... meh.
Mom... tears, sadness, worried. HOW THE HECK AM I THIS EMOTIONAL ABOUT THIS?!
Here's the thing it's a normal procedure. The problem started when I was comforting the boys. Any Momma's heart breaks when her child's heart is broken. It was a very emotional morning.
THEN
Lilly and I get to the vet's office and they talk me through what is about to happen. I'm fine.
THEN
They tell me that if I need to call and check up on her that I can. PAUSE. Now I'm thinking I'm a horrible puppy Momma 'cause I was not planning on calling to see how she was doing. CONTINUE. They tell me that they will call us after the surgery is done. PAUSE. This is serious.
THEN
They tell me the different pain management options. OUCH.
THEN
Lilly is shaking so bad that they carry her to the back. I stand by the door and look back and the vet assistant waves Lilly's paw.
QUE THE TEARS.
Of course I call my husband. Text back and forth with my BFF.
I feel a little too dramatic.
Then the boys come home and realize that no, Lilly really isn't at home.
QUE more tears.
So this morning I go to pick up Lilly and she was so happy that she peed on me.
Yeah. It's been a long few days. However. Lilly is home and resting.
These are the shenanigans that have been happening.
Tuesday, January 14, 2014
100 Happy Days {11}
Can you be happy for 100 days? Challenge accepted.
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Eleven- Ms Lilly Belle
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Eleven- Ms Lilly Belle
100 Happy Days {10}
Can you be happy for 100 days? Challenge accepted.
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Ten- Thinking about my husband's face on our wedding day.
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Ten- Thinking about my husband's face on our wedding day.
100 Happy Days {9}
Can you be happy for 100 days? Challenge accepted.
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Nine- A beary special boy.
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Nine- A beary special boy.
{52 Lists} Week Two
I'm tagging along on with Moorea Seal
as she gives a prompt to each week this year on making a list. Yeah, a
list. Some of them are deep, some light hearted, some silly. Check out the lists and join in!
Monday, January 13, 2014
January: Ten on Ten
One photo, ten hours, on the tenth. Find out more at a bit of sunshine!!! Then join in on the ten on ten photo project.
100 Happy Days {8}
Can you be happy for 100 days? Challenge accepted.
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Eight- Change {from blonde to red/brunette}
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Eight- Change {from blonde to red/brunette}
{this moment}
{this moment} - A single photo - no words - capturing a moment from the
week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to
pause, savor and remember.
Saturday, January 11, 2014
100 Happy Days {7}
Can you be happy for 100 days? Challenge accepted.
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day seven- pirate ship building imagination
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day seven- pirate ship building imagination
100 Happy Days {6}
Can you be happy for 100 days? Challenge accepted.
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Six- coloring
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Six- coloring
Friday, January 10, 2014
See
I'm joining in on Lisa-Jo baker's 'Five Minute Friday'.
The rules are pretty simple. One word. Five minutes of writing. No editing.
See
I see you everyday.
But do I really?
I see your tired eyes trying to adjust to the light.
I see you roll out of bed and get ready for the day.
But do I see you?
I see you come into warm up from being out in the cold.
I see you kick the dirt off your boots.
But do I see you?
I see you rest your head.
I see you swaddle up in you blanket.
But do I see you?
I see you laugh and play.
I see you cry and hurt.
But do I see you?
I didn't see you.
Did I see that the tired in your eyes are from the long hours that you've worked?
Did I see the rolling out of bed is from another sleepless night?
I didn't see you.
Did I see you coming inside to warm up because you've been cutting wood for the house to stay warm?
Did I see you kicking dirt off your boots was from digging out the frozen drain so our house wouldn't flood?
I didn't see you.
I saw you rest your head, but got so mad that it wasn't me.
I saw you swaddle up in the blanket, but was too mad to hug you.
I didn't see you.
Did I see how much effort it took for you to laugh and to play?
Did I see why you were hurt?
I saw you with my eyes but I didn't try looking with my heart.
The rules are pretty simple. One word. Five minutes of writing. No editing.
See
I see you everyday.
But do I really?
I see your tired eyes trying to adjust to the light.
I see you roll out of bed and get ready for the day.
But do I see you?
I see you come into warm up from being out in the cold.
I see you kick the dirt off your boots.
But do I see you?
I see you rest your head.
I see you swaddle up in you blanket.
But do I see you?
I see you laugh and play.
I see you cry and hurt.
But do I see you?
I didn't see you.
Did I see that the tired in your eyes are from the long hours that you've worked?
Did I see the rolling out of bed is from another sleepless night?
I didn't see you.
Did I see you coming inside to warm up because you've been cutting wood for the house to stay warm?
Did I see you kicking dirt off your boots was from digging out the frozen drain so our house wouldn't flood?
I didn't see you.
I saw you rest your head, but got so mad that it wasn't me.
I saw you swaddle up in the blanket, but was too mad to hug you.
I didn't see you.
Did I see how much effort it took for you to laugh and to play?
Did I see why you were hurt?
I saw you with my eyes but I didn't try looking with my heart.
100 Happy Days {5}
Can you be happy for 100 days? Challenge accepted.
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Five- Strongbow
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Five- Strongbow
Wednesday, January 8, 2014
100 Happy Days {4}
Can you be happy for 100 days? Challenge accepted.
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Four- Reading
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Four- Reading
Tuesday, January 7, 2014
100 Happy Days {3}
Can you be happy for 100 days? Challenge accepted.
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Three- Morning workouts
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day Three- Morning workouts
100 Happy Days {2}
Can you be happy for 100 days? Challenge accepted.
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day 2- Dancing
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day 2- Dancing
100 Happy Days {1}
Can you be happy for 100 days? Challenge accepted.
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day one- Aunt Loie sending her love from above.
#100happydays
What made me happy today...
Day one- Aunt Loie sending her love from above.
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